Ok. Take a deep breath.
Breathe in. Breathe out. Think about good things.
Really, I meant it, breathe out. Let it go…
Some really bad things happened this week. Really bad.
A general was laid to rest after giving his life in service to his country.
A Missouri town is in terrible upheaval.
A family is without their son.
Robin Williams. THE Robin Williams. The “Carpe Diem” said in a horse whisper, is dead.
And, of course, SFC Hairston died in Afghanistan this week. As have thousands.
And we should not forget those suffering in the hands of ISIS extremists.
And there is always Gaza.
It’s been a tough week.
Maybe, this night, as we prepare for tomorrow’s worship, we could all just remember that everyone is suffering their own hurt. That each person’s tragedy is their own, their pain is their own, and our pain is not their pain.
This is important. Grief is important.
This week, I’ve seen some “tragedy shaming” making its inevitable rounds. The memes showing images of graphic suffering with a “my tragedy is worse than your tragedy” theme. Hey everyone – its tough out there, people are hurting, you are hurting, I am hurting – shaming each other for not making your tragedy as important as their tragedy isn’t terribly helpful.
I’m sorry you are hurting. I am too. Each of the above events impact us in different ways. I’m not going to lie, there was a moment when I was about done hearing about the General, as great as I’m sure he is, thousands have died in the last decade – THOUSANDS. What makes his different? Rank?
But you see, that is exactly it – I am, in that moment, comparing my suffering and other’s suffering. A pointless and hurtful enterprise. Unhelpful at best. Painfully shaming at worst.
As we prepare our hearts for entering the Sacred Space tomorrow, may we focus on where we are grieving and think about how our fellow saints are grieving so that we might minister to them the healing Gospel.
Life is hard. We, as Christians, at our best, can make life easier by hearing the pain and offering the Grace needed for healing to begin.
“Bear you one another’s burdens and so fulfill the Law of Christ.”